With the understanding and acceptance of Love, comes a gift, which we learn to embrace: awakening.
Our romantic love can help us to open the door to receive that gift.
When we are born, we are filled with the energy of Love, and we expect to be loved. We assume that the world is full of Love, and we are in shock when we experience coldness, indifference or pain. To a little child, Love is a necessity equal to food and water. In fact, lack of Love is more damaging to a child than poverty.
When we experience lack of Love from others, we not only replace our innate joy with fear but also isolate ourselves from others with thick “walls” to avoid further pain.
When we separate ourselves from others, we separate ourselves from Oneness, and either suffer or – suffer and cause suffering.
Separation from Oneness is a sign of disconnection from the energy of Love. Disconnection from Love is a sign of dwelling in the hypnotic Illusion of being in control of our fate while experiencing fear and trying to remedy the emptiness with an illusion of material abundance.
What is this “Oneness” that some people talk about? Why is it important to understand what it means? And – what are we supposed to do with such knowledge?
Love, spiritual growth, and being one with all – remain abstract concepts for the mind, as long as there is a split between such concepts and the life we actually live.
To recognize all as part of the One Whole is to perceive and recognize pure Love in all. The energy of Love surrounds us, flows through us, and comes from us.
With the understanding and acceptance of Love, comes a gift, which we learn to embrace: awakening. Our romantic love can help us to open the door to receive that gift.
The evolution of true Love in a relationship always includes the gradual exploration and experiencing the 7 aspects of Universal Love: Joy, Acceptance, Lowliness (as in being humble), Equality, Surrender, Equilibrium and Reconciliation.
It happens when we recognize and truly appreciate someone on a deeper level. When we admire who they are beyond their physical appearance or personality traits – we have a quiet pleasant feeling, deep inside. It is a very different feeling than being swept off our feet by somebody’s beauty or personality traits. It is a deep and sincere feeling which surprisingly translates to Joy.
From Joy – emerges Acceptance, which is the second aspect of Universal Love.
True love is not blind. It has an x-ray vision. It will look past your traits, and past your looks. It will know whether your behavior, emotions or any of your patterns are a true expression of who you are or just your subconscious programming. Love will appreciate you for you. Acceptance has a profound impact on how we want to cherish our partner, and so it prompts us to invite romance into our life.
Commitment is closely related to the next aspect of Love. That aspect is called Humility (or Lowliness). In a relationship of true Love, Humility affects the way we honor the other person’s truthfulness, and not consider any of our needs more important than theirs.
The very beautiful aspect of Love that follows Acceptance is Equality. When we recognize Equality in our relationship, we recognize our equal rights and privileges to create the most amazing relationship we want.
Equality leads to Surrender to the energy of Love which teaches us that there needs to be Equilibrium between fulfilling our and our partner’s/spouse’s desires, a balancing of our preferences. Such Surrender to Love means true Reconciliation with Love.
Reconciliation with Love leads to awakening:
According to what many philosophers, mystics and belief systems have been saying for thousands of years, and according to quantum field theory, the higher the frequency of vibrations, the higher the impact they have on everything else.
When we examine human brainwaves, for instance, we find out that those of the highest frequency of vibration, especially Gamma waves, are related to expanded consciousness, altruism, and the so-called “higher virtues”. Researchers are still puzzled by the fact that Gamma rhythms modulate perception and consciousness, disappearing under anesthesia, or in a deep trance.
Another mystery for science is how Gamma waves are being generated – since their high frequency is far above neuronal firing. It means that the brain cannot produce such waves – according to traditional scientific research. (However much more research is required, since the brain “re-wired” for spiritual logic, which uses high-frequency vibrations – functions in a different way than the brain using sensory logic).
Expanded consciousness, altruism, unconditional Love – that is, the “higher virtues” (in other words: the high-frequency Intentions) – have enormous power to change reality in a blink of an eye, because of the quality of their vibrations. And they open the door for receiving the gift of “awakening”.
Our Romantic Love gives us the opportunity to open that gate.
We are lovers by nature. Let us love. Let us be loved. And let us be Love.
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Johanna Kern, transformational teacher and multiple award-winning author (“Master and the Green-Eyed Hope”, “365 ( 1) Affirmations to Have a Great Life”, “Master Teachings of HOPE”, “Shadowland: The Legend”) – shares highly effective tips for making your relationship your Dream Relationship. Drawingfrom her experience and knowledge from over 20 years of counseling people on health and emotional problems, relationships, family issues, spirituality, life and career paths, as well as her experience in her relationship with her much younger husband, the author unveils the Secrets of Love for everyone to benefit from and enjoy.
“Secrets of Love for Everyone” leaves no stone unturned:
What is and what isn’t Love
To seek or not to see a soul mate
Do apples fall for oranges?
What to do after you fall in love: get involved, keep away, or get the hell out of there?
Will your relationship work or not: what is the elephant in the room?
Commitment: a deal breaker or a peacemaker?
When “YES” is easy to say and when it weighs a ton
Romance: spontaneous, designed or thoughtful
Relationship Crashers: 7 Ghosts Of Our Past & how to deal with them
Sex & Intimacy: eat your cake & stay hungry too
What aphrodisiacs &super foods can do for your love life
Keeping attraction in your relationship
Expectations vs Realizations
Stuff for Fun: playfulness & happiness
Love will make you grow. Very much so. And it doesn’t matter what kind of experience you have, what kind of knowledge, education, business or academic achievements you hold under your belt. Love will teach you new things. Things that you wouldn’t be able to learn outside of the “realm of true Love”.
“Love IS power. Lack of Love IS lack of power. Do you want to bet? I did.
And it wasn’t really about winning the bet. When I won, I won Love. Because when it comes to Love, everyone wins if you learn the secrets of Love.